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In Israel, a burial under rocket fire and a call to spare Gaza

by Daphne ROUSSEAU
by Daphne ROUSSEAU
Oct 13, 2023
Israeli mourners had to take cover during a funeral after sirens sounded warning of a rocket strike
Israeli mourners had to take cover during a funeral after sirens sounded warning of a rocket strike — GIL COHEN-MAGEN

In Kibbutz Na'an, near Israel's commercial hub Tel Aviv, Yaakov Godo stood in front of the coffin of his son, Tom, who was shot dead in front of his family by Hamas fighters.

On the 72-year-old Israeli's t-shirt is a famous peace slogan in both Hebrew and Arabic: "Looking the occupation in the eye."

"I'm a human rights activist," said the retired vet who helps Palestinian patients access health care. "I'm fighting the occupation.

"I take care of the passage of Palestinians to Jordan, or from Gaza to Israel -- and I won't stop. I'll continue. And I'll support the Palestinians," he said as his son's body was buried.

An Israeli soldier, sent from cemetery to cemetery, reminds the 200 mourners what to do in case of rocket attack -- a growing risk in this past week.

"You have 90 seconds to scatter and get down on the ground," he tells them.

Even before the funeral is over, the siren wails, forcing the crowd to take cover, hands on heads, among the freshly dug graves.

Then two sharp but recognisable sounds of rockets being intercepted are heard, and the mourners sigh with relief.

- 'Horrific' -

At the kibbutz, south of Tel Aviv, the peace activists bury their comrade against the backdrop of the sound and fury of war.

Tom Godo was killed by Hamas fighters at a kibbutz near the Gaza Strip last Saturday

Throughout the ceremony, Israeli fighter jets criss-cross the sky, the noise of their engines drowning out hymns and prayer.

"What is happening in Gaza is horrific," said Godo.

"I'm asking our pilots to drop the bombs they are being asked to drop on the people of Gaza into the sea, instead of on people.

"Enough is enough. And yes, I'm saying it today."

The Godo family is part of a left-wing, secular, pro-peace activist group opposed to Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu.

They may be a minority in Israel but are historically well-represented in the kibbutz.

Tom Godo, 52, an engineer with a passion for theatre and Italy, decided to move to Kissufim, in the Negev desert next to the Gaza Strip this year.

He planned to begin "a new chapter" in his life, in line with his political convictions.

Last Saturday, hundreds of Hamas fighters broke through the heavily fortified border, raining a barrage of rockets and fear on Israel.

More than 1,300 Israelis, most of them civilians, were killed in the street, in their homes and at a music festival.

- 'I love you' -

At Kissufim, the Godo family's nightmare lasted 25 hours.

His family oppose Israel's military retailation and want peace with the Palestinians

Tom Godo used his body to block the door of the safe room that separated him, his wife and their three daughters from the Hamas gunmen outside.

The door to the shelter could be opened from the outside. He spent all day Saturday and into the night against it, despite the grenades and gunfire outside.

"At about 7:30 am the next day (Sunday), two bullets passed through the armour plating on the door, hitting him in the body," his father said.

"He fell and died almost instantly. His wife, in a desperate move, opened the shelter window and let their daughters out, not knowing what was there.

"She jumped out and saved their lives," he added.

The two little girls, four-year-old Tsuf and Geffen, aged six, were in a state of "absolute trauma", their grandfather said.

They did not attend the funeral.

The couple's eldest child, Romy, 11, insisted on coming, however. In a sweatshirt despite the heat, she stared at the red earth covering her father's coffin.

Tom Godo's widow, Limor, wearing jeans and sandals, took the microphone briefly.

"The last moments in the shelter, I had time to tell you, that I know that you will always do all that is in your means, never giving up," she said, her voice breaking.

"And I am pledging in front of you now, to take what you gave me, our life, the one of our three lovely daughters, and to put together all these shattered parts of our life, one by one.

"I love you."